For instance, reciting a bunch of affirmations may make us feel better, but if we really don't believe them how helpful are they? I know that there's the "fake it til you make it" school of thought, but to me this is more about self-confidence that achieving goals and objectives.
Continually telling myself that I have 5 sales this month when I won't call anyone or leave the office just won't get it done. Affirmations aren't that powerful that they will cause 5 people to contact me for an order.
The missing part of the formula is action. I can believe in my abilities. I can believe in my product. I can say and do all the right things (except talking to a customer). I can use affirmations. I can read positive quotes. But, if I won't do anything to myself in gear, I won't have anything to show for all of my inspiration.
Positive thinking is great; however, it doesn't take the place of of positive activity. Notice that I said positive activity, which is anything that will enhance my sales business and not just the act of doing something or being busy.
Positive activity can be calling on potential customers, generating leads, making presentations, marketing, maintaining contact with customers after the initial presentation, servicing the sale, and keeping purchasers satisfied.
When positive thinking merges with positive activity, positive results can occur.
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2 comments:
Hi Steve,
Action is a necessary ingredient of the success equation. Action will come naturally once you believe fully in your affirmations. Affirmations send orders to your subsconscious mind. The subconscious is our power center. It is our programming which determines how we will proceed in life.
Once you have affirmed something long enough to believe in it then you will move into action automatically.
I am currently repeating an affimation to myself 100 times everyday. I am actually writing it down so that I may stress each word and drill it into to my subconscious.
Thanks for sharing your insight :)
Ryan
Ryan,
Thanks for the comments I think the key point you raise about the affirmations is the belief level - "once your believe fully in your affirmations."
I have seen too many people attempt to affirm something over and over that they clearly didn't believe in or think would ever happen - hoping that by repetition they would begin to believe in it and make it happen.
Also repeating affirmations that someone else wrote can lead to inaction as a result of non-belief.
Steve
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